I am not a powerless alcoholic atheist. Wow, I know. That seems like a loaded statement right? It might be tamer to say that while I believe in a higher power, I do not attribute the liberation I feel, the peace of mind, or the clarity I have gained from my sobriety, to a higher … Continue reading I am not a Powerless Alcoholic Atheist
Sobriety: New Definitions for an Old Word
I’ve always been kind-of-a-word-guy. I like learning new ones, knowing their origins and how their meanings have changed, which is known as etymology. The word literally is a wonderfully humorous and current look into etymology. Googles definition of the word literally dates back over 200 years, so when in addition to its original meaning - … Continue reading Sobriety: New Definitions for an Old Word
5 Things I’ve Learned in Sobriety
1. For me deciding to live a life of sobriety is a form of dissent from cultural norms, an insurrection for my soul, and an uprising to create a better life for everyone. It is a definitive act of rebellion against all the things in society that want to keep me down, box me up, … Continue reading 5 Things I’ve Learned in Sobriety
Choosing to Grow
There is a theory floating around in many sober circles that we stop growing emotionally, or maturing, when we start using, and that we are stuck at that maturity level until we address the addiction. I don’t take this theory at face value, at least not to the extent that it is simply laid out … Continue reading Choosing to Grow
A Crack in the Wall
Alcohol isn’t something that shows up in your life like a tsunami. It isn’t that kind of substance. It’s the kind that seeps in overtime, through the cracks, slowly degrading your foundation. It might take a number of years, or 10, or 20 even. You might notice it at times, and think to yourself, “I … Continue reading A Crack in the Wall
To Teach is to Learn
Recently, my wife Ann, and I have been transforming our lives in many ways from what it was, when we first met, and have taken up running. This isn’t so much about that endeavor, but it should be mentioned that we’ve taken quite an affinity towards the physical and mental rewards that we have been … Continue reading To Teach is to Learn
Adulting
These kids[above] look like they are about to drop the hottest album of 2018. Edgy, but fun, they can throw down some mad beats, but ain’t afraid to let it all hang out in an apple orchard. Their young, and hip, and yeah, they’re mine (though the oldest might argue the ownership issue). I took … Continue reading Adulting